Hadith #6816

In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Praise be to Allah, the Lord of all worlds. Peace and blessings be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ), his pure progeny, and his noble companions.

The Arabic Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) states,

أقِمِ الرَّغْبَةَ إلَيْكَ مَقامَ الحُرْمَةِ بِكَ۔

This can be translated as,

Make others incline towards you instead of distancing themselves from you.

Let us delve into the deeper meaning of this beautiful Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) and explore its implications in light of the Quran.

The word (raghbah) "رَغْبَةَ" in this Hadith refers to the desire or inclination of others towards oneself. It signifies the attraction and positive influence that one can have on others. On the other hand, the word (hurmah) "حُرْمَةِ" refers to the state of being distant or estranged. It implies the negative consequences of pushing others away or creating a sense of alienation.

To understand the importance of this teaching, we can turn to the Quran. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) emphasizes the significance of maintaining good relations and attracting others towards righteousness. In Surah Al-Imran (3:103), Allah says,

And hold firmly to the rope of Allah all together and do not become divided. And remember the favor of Allah upon you - when you were enemies and He brought your hearts together and you became, by His favor, brothers.

This verse highlights the importance of unity and building strong bonds of brotherhood among Muslims.

Furthermore, in Surah Al-Hujurat (49:10), Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) states,

Indeed, the believers are brothers. So make peace between your brothers and fear Allah that you may receive mercy.

This verse emphasizes the need for Muslims to reconcile and establish peace among themselves. It encourages us to attract others towards us by fostering an environment of love, compassion, and understanding.

Imam Ali's (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) statement urges us to reflect upon our actions and attitudes towards others. It reminds us to be mindful of how our behavior can either bring people closer to us or push them away. By embodying the qualities of kindness, empathy, and respect, we can create an atmosphere that attracts others towards us.

Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) was known for his immense knowledge and wisdom. He understood the importance of building strong relationships and maintaining harmony within the Muslim community. His teachings and actions serve as a guide for us to follow in our interactions with others.

When we make an effort to incline others towards us, we create opportunities for dialogue, understanding, and collaboration. This can have far-reaching effects, not only on an individual level but also on a societal level. By fostering unity and attracting others towards righteousness, we contribute to the betterment of our communities and the promotion of Islamic values.

Conversely, when we distance ourselves from others or create an atmosphere of alienation, we risk causing division and discord. This goes against the teachings of Islam, which emphasize the importance of unity and brotherhood. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) warns us in Surah Al-Anfal (8:46),

And obey Allah and His Messenger, and do not dispute and [thus] lose courage and [then] your strength would depart; and be patient. Indeed, Allah is with the patient.

In conclusion, the Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) teaches us the importance of attracting others towards us instead of pushing them away. By embodying the qualities of kindness, empathy, and respect, we can create an environment that fosters unity and harmony. This aligns with the teachings of the Quran, which emphasize the significance of maintaining good relations and attracting others towards righteousness. May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) guide us in following the teachings of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) and enable us to build strong bonds of brotherhood within the Muslim ummah.