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Forbearance

Verily forbearance is only suppression of anger and self-restraint. إنَّما الحِلْمُ كَظْمُ الغَيْظِ، ومِلْكُ النَّفْسِ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم The bane of forbearance is humiliation. آفَةُ الحِلْمِ الذُّلُّ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم When you are forbearing with a foolish person, you sadden him; so increase his sorrow by your... إذا حَلُمْتَ عَنِ السَّفِيهِ غَمَمْتَهُ، فَزِدْهُ غَمّاً بِحِلْمِكَ عَنْهُ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم When you are forbearing with an ignorant person, you have given him the best reply. إذا حَلُمْتَ عَنِ الجاهِلِ فَقَدْ أوْسَعْتَهُ جَواباً۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم When you hear something hateful that troubles you, then lower your head, taking no notice of it,... إذا سَمِعْتَ مِنَ الْمَكْرُوهِ ما يُؤْذيكَ فَتَطَأْطَأْ لَهُ يُخْطِكَ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم When forbearance brings about corruption [and defiance in the enemy], forgiveness becomes a... إذا كانَ الْحِلْمُ مَفْسَدةً، كانَ العَفْوُ مَعْجَزَةً۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم Through forbearance, supporters increase. بِالحِلْمِ تَكْثُرُ الأنْصارُ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم It is through suppression [of anger] that forbearance comes about. بِالْكَظْمِ يَكُونُ الْحِلْمُ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم Gulping down the agonies of forbearance extinguishes the fire of anger. تَجَرُّعُ غُصَصِ الحِلْمِ يُطْفِيءُ نارَ الغَضَبِ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم Gulp down the agonies, for indeed I have not seen any drink that is sweeter than this in outcome,... تَجَرَّعِ الغُصَصَ، فَإنّي لَمْ أرَ جُرْعَةً أحْلى مِنْها عاقِبَةً وَلا ألَذَّ مَغَبَّةً۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم Gulp down the pains of forbearance, for indeed it is the cornerstone of wisdom and the fruit of... تَجَرَّعْ مَضَضَ الحِلْمِ، فَإنَّهُ رَأْسُ الحِكْمَةِ، وثَمَرةُ العِلْمِ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم The fruit of forbearance is kindness. ثَمَرَةُ الحِلْمِ الرِّفْقُ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم Virtuous forbearance is a sign of abundant knowledge. حُسْنُ الحِلْمِ دَليلُ وُفُورِ العِلْمِ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم The best forbearance is accustoming yourself to act with forbearance. خَيْرُ الحِلْمِ اَلتَّحَلُّمُ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم The cornerstone of knowledge is forbearance. رَأْسُ العِلْمِ الحِلْمُ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم The alms-tax of forbearance is bearing patiently [with the bad behaviour of the people]. زَكوةُ الحِلْمِ الإحْتِمالُ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم The cause of reverence is forbearance. سَبَبُ الوَقارِ اَلْحِلْمُ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم Espouse forbearance for verily it is the fruit of knowledge. عَلَيْكَ بِالحِلْمِ فَإنَّهُ ثَمَرَةُ العِلْمِ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم Espouse forbearance for indeed it is a pleasing characteristic. عَلَيْكَ بِالحِلْمِ فَإنَّهُ خُلُقٌ مَرْضِيٌّ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم It is when rage and anger prevails that the forbearance of the forbearing is tested. عِنْدَ غَلَبَةِ الغَيْظِ والْغَضَبِ يُخْتَبَرُ حِلْمُ الْحُلَماءِ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم The strength [required] for forbearance in times of anger is greater than the strength [needed] for... قُوَّةُ الحِلْمِ عِنْدَ الغَضَبِ أفْضَلُ مِنَ القُوَّةِ عَلَى الإنْتِقامِ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم Forbearance is sufficient as veneration. كَفى بِالحِلْمِ وَقاراً۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم Delaying punishment is from the perfection of forbearance. مِنْ كَمالِ الحِلْمِ تَأْخِيرُ العُقُوبَةِ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم The best vizier of knowledge is forbearance. نِعْمَ وَزِيرُ العِلْمِ الحِلْمُ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم