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إذا رَأيتَ في غَيرِكَ خُلْقاً ذَميماً فَتَجَنَّبْ مِنْ نَفْسِكَ أمْثالَهُ۔

When you see in others a quality which is objectionable, then keep similar qualities away from yourself.

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When you see in others a quality which is objectionable, then keep similar...

— Imam Ali a.s.
(Ghurar al-Hikam: Good Character)

Personal Reflection

In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Praise be to Allah, the Lord of all the worlds. May peace and blessings be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (), his pure progeny, and his noble companions.

The provided Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) advises us to refrain from adopting objectionable qualities that we observe in others. Let us delve into the deeper meaning of this Hadith and explore its significance in light of the Quran.

The word (khulqan) "خُلْقًا" in the Hadith refers to qualities or characteristics. It encompasses both positive and negative traits that individuals possess. The word (dhamiman) "ذَمِيمًا" means objectionable or blameworthy. It signifies qualities that are morally wrong or harmful.

To understand the importance of this Hadith, we can turn to the Quran for guidance. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) emphasizes the significance of self-reflection and self-improvement in several verses. For instance, in Surah Al-Hujurat (49:11), Allah says,

O you who have believed, let not a people ridicule [another] people; perhaps they may be better than them; nor let women ridicule [other] women; perhaps they may be better than them.

This verse reminds us not to mock or belittle others, as they may possess qualities that are superior to our own.

Furthermore, in Surah Al-Qasas (28:77), we find another relevant verse:

But seek, through that which Allah has given you, the home of the Hereafter; and [yet], do not forget your share of the world. And do good as Allah has done good to you. And desire not corruption in the land. Indeed, Allah does not like corrupters.

This verse encourages us to strive for the Hereafter while also fulfilling our responsibilities in this world. It reminds us to avoid engaging in corrupt behavior, which includes adopting objectionable qualities.

Reflecting on the Hadith, we can understand that Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) is advising us to be mindful of the qualities we observe in others. If we come across someone displaying objectionable behavior, it serves as a reminder for us to avoid falling into the same patterns. By distancing ourselves from such qualities, we can strive for self-improvement and moral growth.

For example, if we witness someone engaging in dishonesty, we should take it as an opportunity to reflect on our own integrity. We should strive to uphold honesty in all aspects of our lives, whether it be in our interactions with others or in our personal conduct. Similarly, if we encounter someone displaying arrogance, we should remind ourselves to cultivate humility and modesty in our own character.

By heeding the advice of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ), we can create a positive ripple effect in our communities. When we refrain from adopting objectionable qualities, we contribute to a more harmonious society. Our actions inspire others to follow suit, leading to a collective improvement in character and behavior.

In conclusion, the Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) urges us to distance ourselves from objectionable qualities that we observe in others. By doing so, we strive for self-improvement and contribute to a more virtuous society. Let us reflect on this profound advice and continuously work towards refining our character, seeking guidance from the Quran and the teachings of the Ahl al-Bayt (عَلَيْهِمُ ٱلسَّلَامُ). May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) grant us the strength and wisdom to embody the noble qualities that He loves.

. : . (Readers are advised to verify the sources mentioned above, and to independently research for an accurate understanding of Hadith. Remember, personal research and seeking guidance from scholars are essential in gaining a better insight. Please, do contact us if you find any wrong citations or explanations.)

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