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إذا حَلُمْتَ عَنِ السَّفِيهِ غَمَمْتَهُ، فَزِدْهُ غَمّاً بِحِلْمِكَ عَنْهُ۔

When you are forbearing with a foolish person, you sadden him; so increase his sorrow by your forbearance towards him.

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When you are forbearing with a foolish person, you sadden him; so increase...

— Imam Ali a.s.
(Ghurar al-Hikam: Forbearance)

Personal Reflection

In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Praise be to Allah, the Lord of all worlds. Peace and blessings be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (), his pure progeny, and his noble companions.

The provided Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) highlights the importance of patience and forbearance when dealing with foolish individuals. Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ), known for his wisdom and knowledge, advises us to respond to the foolishness of others with patience and gentleness. Let us delve into the deeper meaning of this Hadith in light of the Quran.

The key word in this Hadith is (ghammatahu) "غَمَمْتَهُ", which means to sadden or make someone sorrowful. Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) is teaching us that when we exercise patience and forbearance towards a foolish person, it has the effect of making them realize their own foolishness and feel sorrowful about it. This is because our calm and composed response to their foolishness serves as a mirror, reflecting their own shortcomings back to them.

This concept of responding to ignorance and foolishness with patience and forbearance is beautifully emphasized in the Quran. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) tells us in Surah Al-Furqan, verse 63:

And the servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk upon the earth with humility, and when the ignorant address them [harshly], they say [words of] peace.

This verse encourages us to respond to ignorance and harshness with peace and tranquility, just as Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) advises.

Furthermore, in Surah Al-A'raf, verse 199, Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) says:

Take what is given freely, enjoin what is good, and turn away from the ignorant.

This verse reminds us to avoid engaging with the ignorant and foolish individuals, and instead focus on promoting goodness and righteousness. By turning away from the ignorant, we protect ourselves from their negativity and maintain our own peace of mind.

Imam Ali's (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) advice to increase the sorrow of a foolish person through our forbearance is a profound reflection of the Quranic teachings. When we respond to their foolishness with patience and kindness, it not only exposes their own ignorance but also gives them an opportunity to reflect on their behavior and potentially change for the better. Our forbearance becomes a powerful tool for their self-realization and growth.

Moreover, Imam Ali's (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) guidance in this Hadith also highlights the importance of self-control and emotional intelligence. By exercising patience and forbearance, we demonstrate our ability to rise above petty arguments and conflicts. This not only preserves our own dignity but also sets an example for others to follow. It is through such noble conduct that we can inspire positive change in society.

In conclusion, the Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) teaches us the importance of responding to foolishness with patience and forbearance. By doing so, we not only protect ourselves from negativity but also provide an opportunity for the foolish person to reflect on their behavior. This guidance aligns perfectly with the Quranic teachings of responding to ignorance with peace and turning away from the ignorant. May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) grant us the wisdom and strength to embody these teachings in our interactions with others.

. : . (Readers are advised to verify the sources mentioned above, and to independently research for an accurate understanding of Hadith. Remember, personal research and seeking guidance from scholars are essential in gaining a better insight. Please, do contact us if you find any wrong citations or explanations.)

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