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لَمْ يَهْنَأِ العَيْشَ مَنْ قارَنَ الضِدَّ۔

One who stays in the company of his enemy does not enjoy a happy life.

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One who stays in the company of his enemy does not enjoy a happy life.

— Imam Ali a.s.
(Ghurar al-Hikam: Lifestyle)

Personal Reflection

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

Praise be to Allah, the Lord of all worlds, and blessings and peace be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (), his pure and noble family, and his righteous companions.

The Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) states,

One who stays in the company of his enemy does not enjoy a happy life.

This amazing Hadith highlights the importance of choosing our companions wisely and avoiding the company of those who harbor ill intentions towards us.

Let us delve into the meaning of some important words in this Hadith. The word (qaran) "قارَنَ" means to stay or remain in the company of someone. It implies a continuous association with the enemy, rather than a temporary encounter. The word (did) "ضِدَّ" refers to an enemy or adversary, someone who opposes or harbors animosity towards us.

To understand the significance of this Hadith, we can turn to the Quran for guidance. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) emphasizes the importance of choosing righteous companions in Surah Al-Kahf, verse 28:

And keep yourself patient [by being] with those who call upon their Lord in the morning and the evening, seeking His countenance.

This verse highlights the importance of surrounding ourselves with individuals who are devoted to the worship of Allah and seek His pleasure.

Furthermore, in Surah Al-Furqan, verse 27, Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) warns us about the consequences of choosing bad companions:

And the Day the wrongdoer will bite on his hands [in regret] he will say, 'Oh, I wish I had taken with the Messenger a way.

This verse serves as a reminder that the wrong choice of companions can lead to regret and remorse in the Hereafter.

Imam Ali's (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) statement emphasizes the negative impact of staying in the company of enemies. Such associations can have detrimental effects on our well-being, both in this world and the hereafter. When we surround ourselves with those who harbor ill intentions towards us, we expose ourselves to negativity, hostility, and potential harm.

Staying in the company of enemies can lead to a multitude of negative consequences. It can affect our mental and emotional well-being, as constant exposure to negativity and hostility can drain our energy and peace of mind. It can also hinder our spiritual growth, as the influence of those who oppose our values and beliefs can lead us astray from the path of righteousness.

Imam Ali's (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) statement serves as a reminder for us to be cautious in our choice of companions. We should seek the company of those who share our values, support our growth, and encourage us towards righteousness. Surrounding ourselves with positive and righteous individuals can have a profound impact on our happiness, well-being, and spiritual development.

In conclusion, the Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) reminds us of the importance of choosing our companions wisely. By avoiding the company of enemies and surrounding ourselves with righteous individuals, we can protect our well-being, nurture our spirituality, and enjoy a happy and fulfilling life. May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) guide us in selecting the best companions and grant us the wisdom to recognize those who may harm us.

. : . (Readers are advised to verify the sources mentioned above, and to independently research for an accurate understanding of Hadith. Remember, personal research and seeking guidance from scholars are essential in gaining a better insight. Please, do contact us if you find any wrong citations or explanations.)

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