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أفضلُ الأدبِ أنْ يَقِفَ الإنسانُ عِندَ حَدِّهِ ولايَتَعدَّى قَدْرَهُ۔

The best etiquette is for a person to stay within his limits and not go beyond his rank.

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The best etiquette is for a person to stay within his limits and not go...

— Imam Ali a.s.
(Ghurar al-Hikam: Good Etiquette)

Personal Reflection

In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Praise be to Allah, the Lord of all worlds. May peace and blessings be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (), his pure progeny, and his noble companions.

The provided Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) emphasizes the importance of maintaining proper etiquette and staying within one's limits. Let us delve into the deeper meaning of this impactful saying in light of the Quran.

The word (adab) "أدب" in Arabic refers to etiquette, manners, and proper behavior. It encompasses a wide range of virtues and values that guide a person's conduct in various aspects of life. Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) highlights that the best form of adab is when an individual recognizes and respects their own limitations, refraining from exceeding their capabilities and boundaries.

This teaching of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) aligns with the Quranic principle of moderation and balance. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) repeatedly emphasizes the importance of maintaining equilibrium in our actions and not transgressing our limits. In Surah Al-A'raf (7:31), Allah says,

O children of Adam, take your adornment at every masjid, and eat and drink, but be not excessive. Indeed, He likes not those who commit excess.

Furthermore, in Surah Al-Isra (17:37), Allah reminds us,

And do not walk upon the earth exultantly. Indeed, you will never tear the earth [apart], and you will never reach the mountains in height.

This verse serves as a reminder that human beings are limited in their abilities and should not arrogantly overstep their boundaries.

Imam Ali's (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) statement also echoes the Quranic concept of recognizing and appreciating the diversity of talents and capabilities among individuals. In Surah Al-Hadid (57:21), Allah says,

Race toward forgiveness from your Lord and a Garden whose width is like the width of the heavens and earth, prepared for those who believed in Allah and His messengers. That is the bounty of Allah which He gives to whom He wills, and Allah is the possessor of great bounty.

This verse reminds us that each person has been bestowed with unique abilities and potential. It is essential to acknowledge and embrace these differences, rather than trying to surpass others or compete in areas where we may not excel. By recognizing our own limitations and staying within our ranks, we can foster a harmonious and cooperative society that values the contributions of every individual.

Practicing this etiquette has profound consequences in our personal and social lives. On an individual level, it cultivates humility, self-awareness, and contentment. By acknowledging our limitations, we can focus on improving ourselves within our capabilities and avoid the pitfalls of arrogance and pride. This leads to a more balanced and fulfilling life.

On a societal level, adhering to the principle of staying within our ranks promotes harmony, cooperation, and respect among individuals. It discourages envy, competition, and the unjust pursuit of power or status. When everyone recognizes and respects their own limits, it creates an environment where each person's unique talents and contributions are valued, leading to a more inclusive and equitable society.

Reflecting on Imam Ali's (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) beautiful saying, we are reminded of the importance of self-awareness, humility, and recognizing the diversity of talents among individuals. By staying within our limits and not exceeding our rank, we can foster a society that values and appreciates the contributions of every individual. May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) grant us the wisdom and understanding to implement this teaching in our lives.

. : . (Readers are advised to verify the sources mentioned above, and to independently research for an accurate understanding of Hadith. Remember, personal research and seeking guidance from scholars are essential in gaining a better insight. Please, do contact us if you find any wrong citations or explanations.)

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