شرُّ إخوانِكَ مَنْ داهَنَكَ في نَفْسِكَ، وساتَرَكَ عَيْبَكَ۔

The worst of your brothers is the one who flatters you and hides your faults from you.



The worst of your brothers is the one who flatters you and hides your...

— Imam Ali a.s.
(Ghurar al-Hikam: The Brother, The Friend, The Associate And The Companion)

Personal Reflection

In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Praise be to Allah, the Lord of all worlds. May peace and blessings be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (), his purified progeny, and his noble companions.

The provided Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) serves as a profound reminder for Muslims to be cautious of those who flatter them and conceal their faults. It highlights the negative impact of insincere relationships and the importance of genuine advice and constructive criticism within the Muslim community.

Let us delve into the key words of this Hadith to gain a deeper understanding. The word (sharr) "شرُّ" translates to "worst" or "most evil," emphasizing the severity of the behavior being described. (ikhwānik) "إخوانِكَ" refers to "your brothers," indicating that the warning is directed towards fellow Muslims. (man dāhanaka fī nafsika)

مَنْ داهَنَكَ في نَفْسِكَ


the one who flatters you,

highlighting the act of insincere praise and admiration. Finally, (wasāraka 'aybaka) "وساتَرَكَ عَيْبَكَ" translates to

and hides your faults from you,

emphasizing the concealment of one's shortcomings.

To further comprehend the significance of this Hadith, let us turn to the Quran for guidance. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) reminds us in Surah Al-Hujurat (49:11):

O you who have believed, let not a people ridicule [another] people; perhaps they may be better than them; nor let women ridicule [other] women; perhaps they may be better than them. And do not insult one another and do not call each other by [offensive] nicknames. Wretched is the name of disobedience after [one's] faith. And whoever does not repent - then it is those who are the wrongdoers.

This verse emphasizes the importance of treating one another with respect and avoiding ridicule or insults. It encourages Muslims to refrain from belittling others and reminds us that true worth lies in piety and righteousness, not in empty praise or flattery. Therefore, the one who flatters and hides faults is engaging in behavior that is contrary to the teachings of the Quran.

Additionally, in Surah Al-Isra (17:36), Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) states:

And do not pursue that of which you have no knowledge. Indeed, the hearing, the sight and the heart - about all those [one] will be questioned.

This verse reminds us of the importance of seeking knowledge and understanding before making judgments or offering advice. It cautions against blindly following the opinions of others without proper investigation. Therefore, the one who flatters and hides faults may be leading others astray by promoting ignorance and misinformation.

Imam Ali's (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) Hadith serves as a warning against the dangers of insincere relationships. When someone flatters us and conceals our faults, they prevent us from recognizing and rectifying our mistakes. This can lead to complacency and hinder our personal growth and development. Moreover, such individuals may have ulterior motives, seeking personal gain or influence over us.

By highlighting the negative consequences of flattery and concealment, Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) encourages Muslims to foster sincere and honest relationships. True friends are those who offer constructive criticism and help us improve ourselves. They do not hesitate to point out our faults, but do so with kindness and compassion, aiming to guide us towards righteousness.

In conclusion, the Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) serves as a reminder for Muslims to be cautious of those who flatter them and hide their faults. It emphasizes the importance of sincere relationships, where constructive criticism and genuine advice are valued. By heeding this advice, Muslims can strive for personal growth and foster a community built on honesty and righteousness. May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) guide us all to be sincere and genuine in our interactions with others.

. : . (Readers are advised to verify the sources mentioned above, and to independently research for an accurate understanding of Hadith. Remember, personal research and seeking guidance from scholars are essential in gaining a better insight. Please, do contact us if you find any wrong citations or explanations.)

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