يَكْثُرُ حَلْفُ الرَّجُلِ لأرْبَع: مَهانَة يَعْرِفُها مِنْ نَفْسِهِ، أوضَراعَة يَجْعَلُها سَبِيلاً إلى تَصْديقِهِ، أوْ عَيّ لِمَنْطِقِهِ فَيَّتَخِدَ الأيْمانَ حَشْواً وَصِلَةً لِكَلامِهِ، أوْ لِتُهْمَة قَدْ عُرِفَ بِها۔
The swearing of a man increases for four [possible reasons]: something shameful that he knows about himself, or as a means of entreating by which he may be deemed truthful, or because of his inability to express himself so he takes oaths as verbiage to connect his speech, or because of an accusation that has been made upon him.
— Imam Ali a.s.
(Ghurar al-Hikam: False Oaths)
In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Praise be to Allah, the Lord of all worlds. May peace and blessings be upon Muhammad, his family, his companions, and the righteous successors.
In this profound Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ), he highlights four possible reasons for the excessive swearing of a person. Let us delve deeper into the meanings of the important words in this Hadith and explore their significance in light of the Quran.
The first reason mentioned is
something shameful that he knows about himself.
This refers to a person swearing excessively to cover up their own faults or sins. The Quran reminds us in Surah Al-Hujurat (49:12) that we should avoid suspicion and backbiting, as these actions are considered sinful and shameful. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) says,
And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it. And fear Allah; indeed, Allah is Accepting of repentance and Merciful.
The second reason mentioned is
as a means of entreating by which he may be deemed truthful.
This refers to a person using excessive swearing as a way to convince others of their honesty or sincerity. However, the Quran teaches us that our words should be enough to establish our credibility. In Surah Al-Baqarah (2:42), Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) says,
And do not mix the truth with falsehood or conceal the truth while you know [it].
This verse emphasizes the importance of speaking the truth without the need for excessive swearing.
The third reason mentioned is
because of his inability to express himself so he takes oaths as verbiage to connect his speech.
This refers to a person resorting to swearing excessively due to a lack of eloquence or clarity in their speech. However, the Quran encourages us to communicate effectively and clearly without the need for excessive oaths. In Surah Al-A'raf (7:184), Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) says,
Then is it not a guidance for them to observe how many generations We destroyed before them as they walk among their dwellings? Indeed in that are signs for those of intelligence.
This verse highlights the importance of using intellect and wisdom in our speech rather than relying on excessive oaths.
The fourth reason mentioned is
because of an accusation that has been made upon him.
This refers to a person swearing excessively in response to false accusations or rumors. However, the Quran teaches us to respond to falsehood with patience and wisdom. In Surah Al-Furqan (25:63), Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) says,
And the servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk upon the earth easily, and when the ignorant address them [harshly], they say [words of] peace.
This verse reminds us to respond to false accusations with peace and tranquility, rather than resorting to excessive swearing.
Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) highlights these four reasons for excessive swearing to caution us against such behavior. Excessive swearing not only reflects a lack of self-control and integrity but also undermines the power of our words. It can lead to the erosion of trust and credibility in our relationships.
Therefore, as Muslims, we should strive to speak the truth, communicate clearly, and respond to accusations with patience and wisdom. By doing so, we uphold the teachings of the Quran and the noble example set by Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ), who was known for his profound knowledge and wisdom. May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) guide us to follow the path of righteousness and grant us the ability to control our tongues.
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