Near Relatives And Keeping Or Cutting Off Ties With Them

Keeping ties with near relatives is a means of growing the numbers. وَصِلَةَ الأرْحامِ مَنْماةً لِلْعَدَدِ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم Cutting off ties with near relatives brings [divine] retributions. قَطيعةُ الرَّحِمِ تَجْلُبُ النِّقَمَ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم Cutting off ties with near relatives is one of the ugliest practices. قَطيعَةُ الرَّحِمِ مِنْ أقْبَحِ الشِّيَمِ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم Cutting off ties with near relatives causes the cessation of blessings. قَطيعةُ الرَّحِمِ تُزيلُ النِّعَمَ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم There is no increase [in wealth] with cutting off ties with near relatives. لَيْسَ مَعَ قَطيعَةِ الرَّحِمِ نَماءٌ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم No one is considered close by the one who cuts off ties with his near relatives. لَيْسَ لِقاطِعِ رَحِم قَريبٌ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم It is not part of honour to cut off ties with near relatives. لَيْسَ مِنَ الكَرَمِ قَطيعةُ الرَّحِمِ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم Honour your family, for indeed they are your wings by which you fly, and your origin to which you... أكْرِمْ عشيَرتََكَ فَإنَّهُمْ جَناحُكَ الَّذي بِهِ تَطيرُ، وأصْلُكَ الَّذي إلَيهِ تَصيرُ، ويَدُكَ الَّتي بِها تَصُولُ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم Honour your near relatives, revere the forbearing from among them, be patient with the foolish... أكْرِمْ ذَوي رَحِمِكَ، ووَقِّرْ حَليمَهُمْ، واحْلُمْ عَنْ سَفيِهِهِمْ وتَيَسَّرْ لِمُعسِرِهِمْ، فَإنَّهُمْ لَكَ نِعْمَ العُدَّةُ... —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم The best practice is keeping ties with near relatives. أفْضَلُ الشِّيَمِ صِلَةُ الأرْحامِ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم Indeed when near relatives are in contact, they become kind to each other. إنَّ الرَّحِمَ إذا تماسَّتْ تَعاطَفَتْ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم Verily keeping ties with near relatives is from the obligatory acts of Islam, and Allah, the... إنَّ صِلَةَ الأرْحامِ لَمِنْ مُوجِباتِ الإسْلامِ، وإنَّ اللّهَ سُبحانَهُ أمَرَ بِإكْرامِها، وإنَّهُ تعالى يَصِلُ مَنْ وَصَلَها،... —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم Making false accusations is the first step in cutting off ties. التَّجَنّي أوَّلُ القَطيعَةِ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم Beware! None of you should ever abandon [any of] his near relatives whom he finds in [a state of]... ألا لايَعدِلَنَّ أحَدُكُمْ عَنِ القَرابَةِ، يَرى بِهَا الخَصاصَةَ أنْ يَسُدَّها بِالَّذي لايَزيدُهُ إنّ أمْسَكَهُ ولايَنْقُصُهُ إنْ... —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم False accusation is the messenger of severance of ties. التَّجَنّي رَسُولُ القَطيعَةِ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم He who cuts off ties [with near relatives] does not believe in Allah. ما آمَنَ بِاللّهِ مَنْ قَطَعَ رَحِمَهُ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم How ugly is cutting off ties after establishing them, and alienation after brotherhood, and enmity... ما أقْبَحَ القَطيعَةَ بَعْدَ الصِّلَةِ والجَفاءَ بَعْدَ الإخاءِ والعَداوَةَ بَعْدَ الصَّفاءِ، وزَوالَ الاُلْفَةِ بَعْدَ... —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم Who will ever trust you when you are disloyal to your near relatives?. مَنْ ذَا الَّذي يَثِقُ بِكَ إذا غَدَرْتَ بِذَوي رَحِمِكَ۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم Many a distant one is closer than every near one. رُبَّ بَعيد أقْرَبُ مِنْ كُلِّ قريب۔ —Ghurar al-Hikam —غُرَرُ الحِکَم و دُرَرُ الکَلِم