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مَنْ أحْسَنَ الاِعْتِذارَ اِسْتَحَقَّ الاِغْتِفارَ۔

One who apologizes in a befitting manner deserves to be forgiven.

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One who apologizes in a befitting manner deserves to be forgiven.

— Imam Ali a.s.
(Ghurar al-Hikam: Apologizing And Offering Excuses)

Personal Reflection

In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Praise be to Allah, the Lord of all worlds. May peace and blessings be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (), his pure and noble Ahl al-Bayt, and his righteous companions.

The Arabic Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) states,

مَنْ أحْسَنَ الاِعْتِذارَ اِسْتَحَقَّ الاِغْتِفارَ۔

This Hadith emphasizes the importance of offering a sincere and appropriate apology, as it is deserving of forgiveness.

Let us delve into the meaning of some key words in this Hadith. (ahsan) "أحْسَنَ" means to do something in the best or most excellent manner. (al-i'thizar) "الاِعْتِذارَ" refers to apologizing or seeking forgiveness. (istahaqqa) "اِسْتَحَقَّ" means to deserve or be worthy of something. And finally, (al-ightifar) "الاِغْتِفارَ" means forgiveness.

To understand the profound wisdom behind this Hadith, we can turn to the Quran for guidance. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) teaches us the importance of seeking forgiveness and the virtues of those who apologize sincerely. In Surah Al-Baqarah, Ayah 222, Allah says,

Indeed, Allah loves those who are constantly repentant and loves those who purify themselves.

This verse highlights the significance of repentance and seeking forgiveness from Allah. It shows that Allah not only accepts the repentance of His servants but also loves those who turn to Him in sincere remorse. Therefore, when Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) states that one who apologizes in a befitting manner deserves forgiveness, he aligns with the teachings of the Quran.

Moreover, the Quran also emphasizes the importance of treating others with kindness and forgiveness. In Surah An-Nur, Ayah 22, Allah says,

And let not those of virtue among you and wealth swear not to give [aid] to their relatives and the needy and the emigrants for the cause of Allah, and let them pardon and overlook. Would you not like that Allah should forgive you? And Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.

This verse encourages Muslims to be forgiving and merciful towards others, especially those in need. It reminds us that by forgiving others, we increase our chances of receiving forgiveness from Allah. Therefore, when Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) highlights the deserving nature of forgiveness for those who apologize sincerely, he aligns with the Quranic teachings of forgiveness and mercy.

Reflecting on this Hadith, we can see the profound wisdom behind Imam Ali's words. When we apologize in a befitting manner, we acknowledge our mistakes, take responsibility for our actions, and express genuine remorse. By doing so, we demonstrate humility and a desire to rectify our wrongdoings.

A sincere apology not only mends relationships and fosters harmony but also allows for personal growth and spiritual purification. It is a means of seeking forgiveness from both Allah and the person we have wronged. Just as Allah loves those who constantly repent, we too should strive to embody this virtue and seek forgiveness from others.

In conclusion, the Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) teaches us the importance of offering a sincere and appropriate apology. By doing so, we demonstrate humility, seek forgiveness, and pave the way for reconciliation and personal growth. This Hadith aligns with the teachings of the Quran, which emphasize the virtues of seeking forgiveness and being forgiving towards others. May we all strive to apologize in a befitting manner and deserve the forgiveness of Allah.

. : . (Readers are advised to verify the sources mentioned above, and to independently research for an accurate understanding of Hadith. Remember, personal research and seeking guidance from scholars are essential in gaining a better insight. Please, do contact us if you find any wrong citations or explanations.)

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