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خَيْرُ الاِخْتِيار مُوادَّةُ الأخْيارِ۔

The best choice is making friends with the virtuous.

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The best choice is making friends with the virtuous.

— Imam Ali a.s.
(Ghurar al-Hikam: Affection And Friendship)

Personal Reflection

In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Praise be to Allah, the Lord of all the worlds. Peace and blessings be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (), his pure progeny, and his noble companions.

The provided Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) states,

The best choice is making friends with the virtuous.

This Hadith emphasizes the importance of choosing righteous companions and surrounding ourselves with individuals who possess noble qualities and virtues.

Let us delve deeper into the words of this Hadith. The Arabic word (muwaddatu) "مُوادَّةُ" refers to the act of befriending or making friends. It signifies a close and sincere bond between individuals. The term (al-akhyaar) "الأخْيارِ" refers to the virtuous or righteous individuals. These are people who possess good character, adhere to moral values, and strive to please Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ).

The importance of choosing righteous companions is emphasized in the Quran as well. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) says in Surah Al-Kahf (18:28),

And keep yourself patient [by being] with those who call upon their Lord in the morning and the evening, seeking His countenance.

This verse highlights the significance of surrounding ourselves with individuals who are devoted to the worship of Allah and seek His pleasure.

Furthermore, in Surah Al-Furqan (25:27), Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) warns against the company of those who lead others astray, saying,

And [the Day] when the wrongdoer will bite on his hands [in regret] he will say, 'Oh, I wish I had taken with the Messenger a way.'

This verse serves as a reminder of the consequences of choosing the wrong companions, as it can lead one astray and cause regret in the Hereafter.

The Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) encourages Muslims to carefully select their friends and associates. By choosing virtuous companions, we are more likely to be influenced positively and inspired to improve ourselves. Surrounding ourselves with individuals who possess good character, knowledge, and piety can motivate us to strive for righteousness and seek the pleasure of Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ).

The consequences of befriending virtuous individuals are manifold. Firstly, it allows us to benefit from their knowledge and wisdom. By engaging in discussions and seeking advice from righteous companions, we can gain a deeper understanding of Islam and enhance our spiritual growth. Secondly, virtuous friends serve as a source of support and encouragement. They can provide guidance, offer a helping hand, and remind us of our responsibilities towards Allah and His creation.

Moreover, the company of virtuous individuals can have a positive impact on our character and behavior. Just as a piece of iron becomes rusty when exposed to rusted iron, associating with righteous companions can help polish our own character and elevate our moral standards. Their good influence can inspire us to adopt virtuous qualities such as honesty, kindness, patience, and humility.

On the other hand, choosing companions who lack moral values and righteousness can lead to negative consequences. Such individuals may influence us to engage in sinful activities, compromise our principles, and deviate from the path of righteousness. Therefore, it is crucial for Muslims to be cautious and discerning when selecting their friends and associates.

In conclusion, the Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) highlights the importance of choosing virtuous companions. By surrounding ourselves with individuals who possess noble qualities and strive to please Allah, we can benefit from their knowledge, receive support and encouragement, and improve our own character. Conversely, befriending those who lack moral values can lead to negative consequences. May Allah guide us in selecting righteous companions and grant us the wisdom to make choices that are pleasing to Him.

. : . (Readers are advised to verify the sources mentioned above, and to independently research for an accurate understanding of Hadith. Remember, personal research and seeking guidance from scholars are essential in gaining a better insight. Please, do contact us if you find any wrong citations or explanations.)

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