أُذْكُرْ أخاكَ إذا غابَ بِالَّذي تُحِبُّ أنْ يَذْكُرَكَ بِهِ وإيّاكَ وَما يَكْرَهُ، وَدَعْهُ مِمّا تُحِبُّ أنْ يَدَعَكَ مِنْهُ۔
Remember you brother who is absent in the same way that which you would like him to remember you [in your absence] and keep away from what he dislikes; and disregard from him that which you would like him to disregard from you.
— Imam Ali a.s.
(Ghurar al-Hikam: Social Interaction And Mingling)
In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Praise be to Allah, the Lord of all the worlds. May peace and blessings be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ), his pure progeny, and his noble companions.
The provided Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) emphasizes the importance of maintaining strong bonds of brotherhood and friendship among Muslims. Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) advises us to remember our absent brothers in the same way we would like them to remember us in our absence. This means that we should keep them in our thoughts, pray for their well-being, and reach out to them to show our care and concern.
The Hadith also instructs us to keep away from things that our brothers dislike. This highlights the importance of respecting their preferences, avoiding actions that may hurt or offend them, and being mindful of their sensitivities. By doing so, we can foster an environment of love, understanding, and harmony within the Muslim community.
Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) further advises us to disregard from our brothers that which we would like them to disregard from us. This means that we should be forgiving and overlook the shortcomings or mistakes of our brothers, just as we would hope they would do the same for us. This teaches us the importance of forgiveness, compassion, and empathy in our relationships with others.
To understand the significance of this Hadith, let us turn to the Quran for guidance. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) repeatedly emphasizes the importance of maintaining strong bonds of brotherhood and unity among Muslims. In Surah Al-Hujurat, Allah says, (Quran 49:10)
The believers are but brothers, so make settlement between your brothers. And fear Allah that you may receive mercy.
This verse highlights the unity and brotherhood that should exist among Muslims. It reminds us that we are all part of the same Ummah and should strive to resolve any conflicts or disputes that may arise between us. By doing so, we can create an atmosphere of peace and harmony within our communities.
Another verse that supports the teachings of this Hadith is found in Surah Al-Isra, where Allah says, (Quran 17:29)
And do not make your hand [as] chained to your neck or extend it completely and [thereby] become blamed and insolvent.
This verse encourages us to be moderate in our actions and to avoid extremes. It reminds us to be considerate of others and not burden them with our demands or expectations. By being mindful of the feelings and needs of our brothers, we can maintain healthy and balanced relationships.
Reflecting on the teachings of this Hadith, we can see the profound impact it can have on our lives as Muslims. By remembering our absent brothers, respecting their preferences, and forgiving their shortcomings, we can strengthen the bonds of brotherhood within the Muslim community. This will create an environment of love, compassion, and unity, which is essential for the progress and well-being of the Ummah.
Furthermore, this Hadith teaches us the importance of selflessness and putting the needs of others before our own. It reminds us to be considerate and empathetic towards our brothers, and to treat them with kindness and respect. By doing so, we can embody the teachings of Islam and strive towards building a society based on justice, compassion, and mutual support.
In conclusion, the Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of maintaining strong bonds of brotherhood and friendship within the Muslim community. It emphasizes the need to remember our absent brothers, respect their preferences, and forgive their shortcomings. By following these teachings, we can create an atmosphere of love, understanding, and unity, which is essential for the progress and well-being of the Ummah. May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) guide us all in embodying these noble teachings and bless us with strong and harmonious relationships with our fellow Muslims.
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