اِحْذَرِ الهَزْلَ، واللَّعْبَ، وكَثْرَةَ المَزْحِ، والضِّحْكِ، وَالتُّرَهاتِ۔
Be wary of jesting, playing, excessive joking, [excessive] laughing, and vain talks.
— Imam Ali a.s.
(Ghurar al-Hikam: Good Character)
In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Praise be to Allah, the Lord of all worlds. May peace and blessings be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ), his pure progeny, and his noble companions.
In this profound Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ), he advises us to be cautious and mindful of certain behaviors: jesting, playing, excessive joking, excessive laughing, and vain talks. Let us delve into the meanings of these words and explore their significance in light of the Quran.
The word (hazl) "هَزْلَ" refers to engaging in frivolous or idle activities that divert one's attention from more important matters. It includes engaging in activities without purpose or wasting time in trivial pursuits. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) warns us in the Quran about the futility of such actions in Surah Al-An'am, verse 32:
And the worldly life is not but amusement and diversion; but the home of the Hereafter is best for those who fear Allah, so will you not reason?
The word (la'b) "لَّعْبَ" refers to engaging in play or amusement. While play is a natural part of human life, excessive indulgence in it can lead to neglecting one's responsibilities and wasting valuable time. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) reminds us in Surah Al-An'am, verse 70:
And leave those who take their religion as amusement and diversion and whom the worldly life has deluded.
The phrase (kathrat al-mazh) "كَثْرَةَ المَزْحِ" refers to excessive joking or jesting. While humor and light-heartedness have their place in our lives, Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) cautions against going to extremes in this regard. Excessive joking can lead to trivializing serious matters and undermining the importance of sincere communication. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) advises us in Surah Al-Hujurat, verse 11:
O you who have believed, let not a people ridicule [another] people; perhaps they may be better than them; nor let women ridicule [other] women; perhaps they may be better than them.
The word (dahk) "ضِّحْكِ" refers to excessive laughing. While laughter is a natural expression of joy, excessive and uncontrolled laughter can be a sign of heedlessness and lack of seriousness. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) reminds us in Surah At-Tawbah, verse 82:
So let them laugh a little and [then] weep much as recompense for what they used to earn.
The term (turahat) "تُّرَهاتِ" refers to vain or empty talks. It encompasses engaging in meaningless conversations that do not contribute to knowledge, wisdom, or the betterment of oneself or others. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) advises us in Surah Al-Jathiya, verse 23:
Have you seen he who has taken as his god his [own] desire, and Allah has sent him astray due to knowledge and has set a seal upon his hearing and his heart and put over his vision a veil? So who will guide him after Allah? Then will you not be reminded?
Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) warns us against these behaviors because they can lead to a loss of focus, wasting time, and neglecting our responsibilities. Engaging in excessive jesting, playing, joking, laughing, and vain talks can divert our attention from the remembrance of Allah, hinder our spiritual growth, and weaken our connection with Him.
By being mindful of these warnings, we can strive to strike a balance in our lives. We should engage in activities that are beneficial, purposeful, and aligned with the teachings of Islam. We should prioritize our obligations and responsibilities, while also allowing ourselves moments of joy and relaxation within the boundaries set by Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ).
Let us reflect on the wisdom of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) and strive to avoid excessive engagement in jesting, playing, joking, laughing, and vain talks. May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) grant us the wisdom and strength to lead balanced lives, focused on fulfilling our duties and seeking His pleasure.
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