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مَنْ كُنْتَ سَبَباً لَهُ في بَلائِهِ، وَجَبَ عَلَيْكَ التَّلَطُّفُ في عَلاجِ دائِهِ۔

When you are the cause of someone’s affliction, it is obligatory upon you to show courtesy [and kindness] in trying to remedy his affliction.

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When you are the cause of someone’s affliction, it is obligatory upon...

— Imam Ali a.s.
(Ghurar al-Hikam: Courteousness)

Personal Reflection

In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Praise be to Allah, the Lord of all worlds. May peace and blessings be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (), his pure progeny, and his noble companions.

The provided Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) emphasizes the importance of showing kindness and compassion when we are the cause of someone's affliction. Let us delve into the deeper meaning of this Hadith by examining its key words and their implications.

The word (sababan) "سَبَباً" in the Hadith refers to being the cause or reason behind someone's affliction. It highlights the responsibility we hold when our actions or words contribute to the suffering of others. Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) teaches us that in such situations, it becomes obligatory upon us to demonstrate (at-talattuf) "التَّلَطُّفُ", which can be translated as courtesy, kindness, or gentleness.

To further understand the significance of this teaching, we can turn to the Quran for guidance. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) says in Surah Al-Imran (3:159),

So by mercy from Allah, [O Muhammad], you were lenient with them. And if you had been rude [in speech] and harsh in heart, they would have disbanded from about you.

This verse highlights the importance of showing kindness and gentleness, even in the face of adversity. It reminds us that by adopting a gentle approach, we can win the hearts of others and bring about positive change.

Another verse that supports the exegesis of this Hadith is found in Surah Al-Hujurat (49:11), where Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) says,

O you who have believed, let not a people ridicule [another] people; perhaps they may be better than them; nor let women ridicule [other] women; perhaps they may be better than them.

This verse encourages us to refrain from mocking or belittling others, as it may lead to further harm and division. Instead, it urges us to treat others with respect and kindness, recognizing that they may possess qualities or virtues that we are unaware of.

Imam Ali's (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) teaching in this Hadith is a profound reminder of our duty towards one another as Muslims. When we unintentionally cause someone's affliction, it is not enough to simply acknowledge our mistake. We are obligated to go beyond that and actively seek to remedy the harm we have caused. This requires us to approach the situation with kindness, empathy, and a genuine desire to alleviate their suffering.

By showing courtesy and kindness in trying to remedy someone's affliction, we not only fulfill our obligation as Muslims but also contribute to the betterment of society. Our actions have the potential to heal wounds, mend relationships, and foster a sense of unity and compassion among believers. Moreover, it reflects the noble character of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ), who was known for his profound knowledge and wisdom.

In conclusion, the Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) serves as a reminder of our responsibility towards others when we are the cause of their affliction. It emphasizes the importance of showing courtesy and kindness in trying to remedy the harm we have caused. By following this teaching, we can emulate the noble character of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) and contribute to a more harmonious and compassionate society. May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) grant us the wisdom and strength to embody these teachings in our interactions with others.

. : . (Readers are advised to verify the sources mentioned above, and to independently research for an accurate understanding of Hadith. Remember, personal research and seeking guidance from scholars are essential in gaining a better insight. Please, do contact us if you find any wrong citations or explanations.)

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