Hadith #10215

In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Praise be to Allah, the Lord of all the worlds. May peace and blessings be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ), his purified progeny, and his noble companions.

The Arabic Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) states,

نُصْحُكَ بَيْنَ الْمَلاءِ تَقْرِيعٌ۔

This can be translated as,

Your advice [when given] in front of other people is [considered] a rebuke.

Let us delve into the deeper meaning of this profound statement and explore its significance in light of the Quran.

The word (nus'huka) "نُصْحُكَ" in this Hadith refers to "your advice" or "your counsel." It signifies the act of offering sincere guidance or counsel to someone. It is important to note that advice should always be given with good intentions, seeking the betterment of the individual being advised. However, Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) highlights the importance of considering the context in which advice is given.

The term (bayna al-malā') "بَيْنَ الْمَلاءِ" refers to

in front of other people

or

in a public setting.

This indicates that the advice being given is not in private, but rather in the presence of others. The word (taqri') "تَقْرِيعٌ" can be translated as "a rebuke" or "a criticism." It implies that when advice is given publicly, it can be perceived as a form of reprimand or censure.

To understand the significance of this Hadith, we can turn to the Quran for guidance. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) emphasizes the importance of advising one another in a gentle and respectful manner. In Surah An-Nahl, Allah says, (Quran 16:125)

Invite to the way of your Lord with wisdom and good instruction, and argue with them in a way that is best

This verse highlights the need for wisdom and good manners when offering advice, ensuring that it is delivered in the best possible manner.

Furthermore, the Quran teaches us the importance of maintaining the dignity and honor of others. In Surah Al-Hujurat, Allah says, (Quran 49:11)

O you who have believed, let not a people ridicule [another] people; perhaps they may be better than them; nor let women ridicule [other] women; perhaps they may be better than them

This verse reminds us to refrain from belittling or humiliating others, as we may not fully comprehend their worth or potential.

Imam Ali's (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) statement serves as a reminder to Muslims that when offering advice, we must be mindful of the impact it may have on the individual and the perception it creates among others. Publicly criticizing or rebuking someone can lead to embarrassment, resentment, and even the deterioration of relationships. Therefore, it is essential to exercise wisdom, empathy, and tact when advising others.

Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) possessed immense knowledge and wisdom, and his words carry great weight. His statement in this Hadith encourages Muslims to prioritize the preservation of harmony and respect in their interactions. It reminds us to choose appropriate settings and methods when offering advice, ensuring that it is received positively and constructively.

In conclusion, the Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) teaches us the importance of considering the context in which advice is given. It reminds us to be mindful of the impact our words may have on others and to deliver advice with wisdom, empathy, and respect. By adhering to these principles, we can foster a culture of constructive criticism, personal growth, and harmonious relationships within the Muslim community. May Allah guide us all to follow the teachings of the Quran and the Ahl al-Bayt (عَلَيْهِمُ ٱلسَّلَامُ).