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إيّاكَ وَمُعاشَرَةَ مُتَتَبِّعي عُيُوبِ (الذُّنُوبِ) النّاسِ،فَإنَّهُ لَمْ يَسْلَمْ مُصاحِبُهُمْ مِنْهُمْ۔

Keep away from socializing with those who look for the faults (or sins) of people, for indeed even their companion is not safe from them.

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Keep away from socializing with those who look for the faults (or sins) of...

— Imam Ali a.s.
(Ghurar al-Hikam: Social Interaction And Mingling)

Personal Reflection

In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. May peace and blessings be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (), his pure progeny, and his noble companions.

The provided Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) warns us against associating with those who constantly seek out the faults and sins of others. Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) advises us to stay away from such individuals, as even being in their company does not guarantee our safety from their harmful behavior.

To better understand the significance of this Hadith, let us delve into the meanings of some important words. The word (mutatabbie) "مُتَتَبِّعي" refers to those who actively seek out and follow the faults or sins of others. They are individuals who are constantly on the lookout for mistakes or shortcomings in people's behavior. The word (adh-dhunub) "الذُّنُوبِ" refers to sins or transgressions.

In order to gain a deeper understanding of the importance of avoiding such individuals, we can turn to the Quran for guidance. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) warns us in Surah Al-Hujurat (49:12),

O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it. And fear Allah; indeed, Allah is Accepting of repentance and Merciful.

This verse highlights the negative consequences of assuming the worst about others and engaging in backbiting or spying. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) compares such behavior to eating the flesh of one's own brother, emphasizing the repugnance and harm it causes. By avoiding negative assumptions and refraining from engaging in harmful speech about others, we can maintain a harmonious and respectful society.

Furthermore, in Surah Al-Hujurat (49:11), Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) reminds us,

O you who have believed, let not a people ridicule [another] people; perhaps they may be better than them; nor let women ridicule [other] women; perhaps they may be better than them. And do not insult one another and do not call each other by [offensive] nicknames. Wretched is the name of disobedience after [one's] faith. And whoever does not repent - then it is those who are the wrongdoers.

This verse emphasizes the importance of refraining from ridiculing or insulting others. It reminds us that we should not judge others based on superficial differences or shortcomings. Instead, we should focus on our own self-improvement and refrain from engaging in behavior that belittles or harms others.

Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) warns us about the consequences of associating with those who constantly seek out the faults of others. Such individuals not only harm the reputation and well-being of others but also create a toxic environment where trust and unity are undermined. By distancing ourselves from such individuals, we protect ourselves from being influenced by their negative behavior and attitudes.

Moreover, Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) encourages us to reflect on our own actions and strive for self-improvement. Instead of focusing on the faults of others, we should concentrate on rectifying our own shortcomings and sins. This aligns with the Quranic teachings that emphasize self-accountability and personal growth.

In conclusion, the Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) serves as a reminder for Muslims to avoid associating with those who constantly seek out the faults or sins of others. By distancing ourselves from such individuals, we protect ourselves from their harmful behavior and maintain a positive and harmonious environment. Instead, we should focus on our own self-improvement and refrain from engaging in negative assumptions, backbiting, or ridiculing others. May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) guide us to follow the teachings of the Quran and the Ahl al-Bayt (عَلَيْهِمُ ٱلسَّلَامُ) and enable us to be a source of goodness and unity in our communities.

. : . (Readers are advised to verify the sources mentioned above, and to independently research for an accurate understanding of Hadith. Remember, personal research and seeking guidance from scholars are essential in gaining a better insight. Please, do contact us if you find any wrong citations or explanations.)

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