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بِحُسْنِ العِشْرَةِ تَدُومُ الوُصْلَةُ (الصُحْبَةُ)۔

By good social interaction ties (or companionship) last.

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By good social interaction ties (or companionship) last.

— Imam Ali a.s.
(Ghurar al-Hikam: Social Interaction And Mingling)

Personal Reflection

In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Praise be to Allah, the Lord of all the worlds. May peace and blessings be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (), his pure progeny, and his noble companions.

The Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) states,

By good social interaction ties (or companionship) last.

This Hadith emphasizes the importance of maintaining good relationships and companionship with others. To fully understand the depth of this statement, let us delve into the meanings of the key words used in this Hadith.

The word (husn) "حُسْنِ" means goodness or excellence. It refers to the quality of being good, kind, and virtuous in one's behavior and actions towards others. It encompasses treating others with respect, compassion, and fairness. In the context of this Hadith, (husn al-'ishra) "حُسْنِ العِشْرَةِ" refers to having good social interaction or companionship.

The word ('ishra) "عِشْرَةِ" can be translated as social interaction or companionship. It signifies the bond and connection between individuals, the quality of their relationship, and the time spent together. It encompasses the way we interact, communicate, and support one another in our daily lives.

To further understand the significance of this Hadith, let us turn to the Quran for guidance. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) emphasizes the importance of good companionship in several verses. In Surah Al-Kahf, Allah says, (Quran 18:28)

And keep yourself patient [by being] with those who call upon their Lord in the morning and the evening, seeking His countenance. And let not your eyes pass beyond them, desiring adornments of the worldly life, and do not obey one whose heart We have made heedless of Our remembrance and who follows his desire and whose affair is ever [in] neglect

This verse highlights the significance of surrounding ourselves with righteous companions who remind us of Allah and encourage us to engage in acts of worship. Such companionship helps us stay steadfast on the path of righteousness and protects us from being influenced by those who are heedless of Allah's remembrance.

In another verse, Allah says, (Quran 9:119)

O you who have believed, fear Allah and be with those who are true

This verse emphasizes the importance of being in the company of truthful and righteous individuals. By surrounding ourselves with such companions, we are more likely to uphold the truth, avoid falsehood, and strengthen our faith.

The Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) echoes the teachings of the Quran by emphasizing the lasting nature of good companionship. When we engage in good social interaction and maintain strong ties with others, these relationships endure and bring about numerous benefits.

Good companionship has a profound impact on our character, behavior, and spiritual growth. When we surround ourselves with individuals who possess good qualities and strive for righteousness, we are inspired to emulate their virtues. Their positive influence helps us develop and maintain good moral values, leading to personal growth and spiritual elevation.

Furthermore, good companionship provides us with a support system during times of difficulty. When we face challenges or hardships, having supportive friends who offer guidance, encouragement, and empathy can make a significant difference in our ability to overcome obstacles. They provide us with a sense of belonging, understanding, and solace, strengthening our resilience and helping us navigate through life's trials.

Conversely, negative companionship can have detrimental effects on our character and spiritual well-being. Allah warns us in the Quran, (Quran 25:27-29)

And the Day the wrongdoer will bite on his hands [in regret] he will say, 'Oh, I wish I had taken with the Messenger a way. Oh, woe to me! I wish I had not taken that one as a friend. He led me away from the remembrance after it had come to me. And ever is Satan, to man, a deserter'

This verse serves as a reminder of the consequences of choosing companions who lead us astray from the path of righteousness. Associating with those who engage in sinful behavior, promote immorality, or neglect the remembrance of Allah can have a detrimental impact on our faith and spiritual well-being. It is therefore crucial to be mindful of the company we keep and to strive for companionship that aligns with the teachings of Islam.

In conclusion, the Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) reminds us of the lasting nature of good companionship. By engaging in good social interaction and maintaining strong ties with others, we can benefit from their positive influence, support, and guidance. Surrounding ourselves with righteous companions who remind us of Allah and encourage us to engage in acts of worship helps us stay steadfast on the path of righteousness. Conversely, negative companionship can lead us astray and have detrimental effects on our character and spiritual well-being. May Allah guide us to choose our companions wisely and bless us with righteous companionship that strengthens our faith and brings us closer to Him.

. : . (Readers are advised to verify the sources mentioned above, and to independently research for an accurate understanding of Hadith. Remember, personal research and seeking guidance from scholars are essential in gaining a better insight. Please, do contact us if you find any wrong citations or explanations.)

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