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كَثْرَةُ الكَلامِ تُمِلُّ الإخْوانَ۔

Excessive talking makes one’s brothers fed up.

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Excessive talking makes one’s brothers fed up.

— Imam Ali a.s.
(Ghurar al-Hikam: Speech And Speaking)

Personal Reflection

In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Praise be to Allah, the Lord of all worlds. May peace and blessings be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (), his pure Ahl al-Bayt, and his noble companions.

The Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) states,

Excessive talking makes one’s brothers fed up.

This beautiful Hadith highlights the negative consequences of excessive speech and emphasizes the importance of moderation in our communication.

Let us first delve into the meaning of the important words in this Hadith. "Kathratu al-kalam" refers to the abundance or excessiveness of speech, while "tumillu al-ikhwan" means to make one's brothers fed up or weary. Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) is cautioning us against the harmful effects of talking excessively, which can lead to annoyance and weariness among our fellow Muslims.

To further understand the wisdom behind this Hadith, we can turn to the Quran for guidance. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) says in Surah Al-Isra (17:36),

And do not pursue that of which you have no knowledge. Indeed, the hearing, the sight and the heart - about all those [one] will be questioned.

This verse reminds us to be mindful of our speech and to refrain from engaging in conversations or spreading information without proper knowledge. Excessive talking often leads to speaking without knowledge, which can cause misunderstandings, conflicts, and harm to our relationships with others.

Furthermore, Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) advises us in Surah Al-Hujurat (49:11),

O you who have believed, let not a people ridicule [another] people; perhaps they may be better than them; nor let women ridicule [other] women; perhaps they may be better than them.

This verse teaches us the importance of respecting and honoring one another. Excessive talking, especially when it involves mockery or belittlement, can lead to the degradation of others and the erosion of brotherhood among Muslims.

Imam Ali's (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) statement also aligns with the teachings of the Quran in Surah Al-Hujurat (49:12), where Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) says,

O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it. And fear Allah; indeed, Allah is Accepting of repentance and Merciful.

Excessive talking can lead to negative assumptions, backbiting, and gossip, which are all condemned in Islam. These actions not only harm the unity of the Muslim community but also damage the reputation and honor of individuals.

Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ), known for his profound knowledge and wisdom, highlights the consequences of excessive speech. When we talk excessively, we often neglect to listen attentively to others, which can lead to misunderstandings and strained relationships. Moreover, excessive talking can also drain our energy and time, diverting our focus from more important matters such as worship, self-reflection, and self-improvement.

In conclusion, the Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) serves as a reminder for Muslims to exercise moderation in their speech. Excessive talking can lead to weariness among our brothers and sisters in faith, damage relationships, and create misunderstandings. By adhering to the teachings of the Quran and the guidance of our beloved Prophet Muhammad () and his Ahl al-Bayt, we can cultivate an environment of respect, understanding, and unity within the Muslim community. May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) grant us the wisdom to speak with moderation and the ability to listen attentively to others.

. : . (Readers are advised to verify the sources mentioned above, and to independently research for an accurate understanding of Hadith. Remember, personal research and seeking guidance from scholars are essential in gaining a better insight. Please, do contact us if you find any wrong citations or explanations.)

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