صِلَةُ الرَّحِمِ تُنْمِي العَدَدَ، وتُوجِبُ السُّؤْدَدَ۔
Keeping ties with near relatives makes the numbers grow and results in eminence.
— Imam Ali a.s.
(Ghurar al-Hikam: Near Relatives And Keeping Or Cutting Off Ties With Them)
In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. All praise is due to Allah, the Lord of all worlds. May peace and blessings be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ), his pure progeny, and his noble companions.
The provided Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) highlights the importance of maintaining strong ties with our relatives. The word (silat al-rahim) "صِلَةُ الرَّحِمِ" refers to the act of maintaining and nurturing family relationships. The term (tunmi) "تُنْمِي" means to make something grow or increase, while (al-'adad) "العَدَدَ" refers to numbers or one's progeny. Finally, (tujibu) "تُوجِبُ" means to result in or bring about, and (as-sudad) "السُّؤْدَدَ" denotes eminence, honor, or distinction.
The importance of maintaining family ties is emphasized in the Quran as well. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) says in Surah An-Nisa (4:1):
O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul and created from it its mate and dispersed from both of them many men and women. And fear Allah, through whom you ask one another, and the wombs. Indeed Allah is ever, over you, an Observer.
This verse highlights the common origin of humanity and the interconnectedness of all individuals through the creation of Adam and Eve. It emphasizes the importance of maintaining family ties by mentioning "the wombs," which refers to the bond between relatives. By nurturing these relationships, we not only strengthen the fabric of society but also fulfill our duty towards our Creator.
Furthermore, in Surah Al-Isra (17:23-24), Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) says:
And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Whether one or both of them reach old age [while] with you, say not to them [so much as], 'uff,' and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word. And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy and say, 'My Lord, have mercy upon them as they brought me up [when I was] small.'
These verses emphasize the importance of showing kindness and respect to our parents. By extension, they also highlight the significance of maintaining good relations with our relatives. Just as we are instructed to treat our parents with utmost care and respect, we should also extend the same courtesy to our extended family members.
Imam Ali's (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) statement in the Hadith reflects the profound impact that maintaining family ties can have on our lives. When we actively nurture these relationships, they not only grow in number but also bring about eminence and honor. This can be understood in various ways.
Firstly, maintaining strong family ties fosters a sense of unity and support within the family. When we are there for our relatives in times of need, we create a bond of trust and love. This unity strengthens the family as a whole and allows for collective growth and progress.
Secondly, by maintaining family ties, we ensure the preservation of our lineage and heritage. Our relatives carry a part of our identity and history, and by staying connected, we contribute to the continuation of our lineage. This sense of continuity brings about a sense of pride and eminence.
Thirdly, when we maintain strong family ties, we create a network of support and resources. Our relatives can provide us with emotional support, guidance, and assistance in various aspects of life. This support system can lead to personal growth, success, and eminence in different spheres of life.
Moreover, the act of maintaining family ties aligns with the teachings of Islam, which emphasize the importance of love, compassion, and unity within the Muslim community. By nurturing these relationships, we embody the values of Islam and contribute to the overall well-being of society.
In conclusion, the Hadith of Imam Ali (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) highlights the significance of maintaining ties with our relatives. This act not only leads to an increase in numbers but also brings about eminence and honor. By nurturing these relationships, we strengthen the fabric of society, preserve our lineage, and create a network of support and resources. May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ) guide us to fulfill our duty towards our relatives and grant us the wisdom to understand the profound impact of maintaining family ties.
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